Showing posts with label Romance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Romance. Show all posts

December 19, 2008

My favorite songs ....... for YOU !!


One day, ....... one day, ....... is so long for me ....... without you. Miss you so much, I wish you understand my ....... feeling.

I am ....... strong but without you within me ....... I cannot find no rest ........ All I am going to be is ....... INCOMPLETE. Honey ......., you know it, if you let go of me, I ....... I will be ....... INCONSOLABLE.


Baby, come on, my baby ......., what do you say!?










Hey, do you think it works?
....... Not so sure .............

Okay, then try another one !!


Baby, I know you are hurting ........ and right now you feel like you would never love me again. I am not asking you to forgive me, but all I ask is for a CHANCE, ....... a chance to prove that I love you.

I should ....... have told you that I love you, the time you asked me. Honey, right now, I realized that you are the only one girl that I cannot live without. I love you so much ....... and will always do. You are always beautiful in my heart.


November 28, 2008

"Love is Sacrifice"

"If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don`t they never were."
Kahlil GIBRAN

There are many quotations on love given by many philosophers, scholars, and people with different ways of stating their perspective. I think all of those quotations are logical, rational and worthwhile considering. Among those, I would like to pick up/raise one quotation on love of Kahlil GIBRAN`s to introduce and explain why I decided to single out that quotation.

From the quotation, there are many possible ways of interpretation, it depends on many variables, what you base on and focus about. According to Kahlil, I think what we can learn from him is that "Love is sacrifice".

I mean, if you love a girl (she loved you too) but unfortunately a third person just showed up from out of nowhere and they fell with each other. And she wants to go to him, leaves you all alone. What would you do then? Indeed, if you love somebody you do not want to let her go away from you, but because of the power of love, you will respect her decision and give her freedom to choose who she really loves (my assumption).

For me, if I can make sure that that is what she wants and she will lead a happy life, it is okay because that is everything I want. Even how much it hurts to let her go, I just want her to know that "If you are happy that is enough for me. And I just want you to know that, I will be here for you and when you want to come back, you are welcomed. I love you and will always do." (I tried to feel Kahlil`s feeling when this idea came up to his mind)

Nobody wants to say "Goodbye" to the only one person they love, and no one wants it to happen either. You know what just try to think of Kahlil`s feeling from his quotation, I can feel it in my bone, I can feel how hard it is to face that kind of a situation. Hoping that it neither happens to me and nor to you.

By the way, after considering and interpreting about that concept of love, I can imagine that it is so hard for everybody to say "Goodbye". To me, if a couple/boyfriend and girlfriend, they are in love, I will let them be. I do not want to be the second guy, because of me someone could get hurt, so you know what I mean, I guess.

Moreover, if she is not available (SBU: single but unavailable), I will try to avoid falling in love with her. Sometimes, I believe we can control our minds, because we love the one we know so we must be able to know that we will fall in love with her if.....(based on how you feel about her comparing to other girls and love is the fruit/result of friendship/good relationship, some cases).

So if she has somebody, let her be and when you hear the bell warning that it is a "dangerous zone" (you are falling right now), get your ears checked and take action asap. Staying a little bit farther from her is one suggestion and it could help sometimes.

Last but not least, "Love is Sacrifice", we can say that based on Kahlil GIBRAN`s quotation. His idea is impressive - and very interesting. Saying goodbye is always painful for everybody. If you are sentimental, saying goodbye is heart-wrenching.

May a successful true-love be with you !!!

Adam SMIK

November 26, 2008

Quotations on Love!

"There are many girls that I can live with, but you are the only one girl that I cannot live without. I love you and will always do. You are always beautiful in my heart."
Adam smiK

Love one another and you will be happy. It`s as simple and as difficult as that.
Michael Leunig

You don`t love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her.
Anonymous

Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.
Diane Ackerman

Love is much like a wild rose, beautiful and calm, but willing to draw blood in its defense.
Mark Overby

Love is like pi -- natural, irrational, and very important.
Lisa Hoffman

Immature love says: "I love you because I need you." Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."
Erich Fromm

If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don`t, they never were.
Kahil Gibran

The sweetest joy, the wildest woe is love.
Pearl Bailey

Love doesn`t make the world go around. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
Franklin P. Jones

At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet.
Plato

Love is a friendship set to music.
E. Joseph Cossman

True love come quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.
Erich Segal

You don`t marry someone you can live with - you marry the person who you cannot live without.
Anonymous

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart.
Hellen Keller

There is no remedy for love, everybody knows, but to love more.
Thoreau

Some love lasts a lifetime. True love lasts forever.
Anonymous

A friend is someone who knows all about you, and loves you just the same.
Proverb

I met in the street a very poor young man who was in love. His hat was old, his coat was worn, his cloak was out at the elbows, the water passed through his shoes -- and the stars through his soul.
Victor Hugo

"When I look into your eyes and you`re looking back into mine, everything feels not quite normal. Because I feel stronger and weaker at the same time. I feel excited and at the same time terrified .... It`s as if I`ve reached the unreachable and I wasn`t ready for it."
Peter Parker/Spider-man

"There`s something I`ve been wanting to tell you .... There was only one person who I was thinking of, and it was you. Who makes me feel like I`m more than I ever thought I could be. That I`m just...me, and that`s okay. The truth is...I love you."
Mary Jane Watson

(Sources: Joseph and various sources)

November 25, 2008

Interesting? .....Hell yeah!

"You flirt a girl because you are attracted to her, maybe, and want to win her heart/love. But whether you are quite sure that you love her and will be able to make her happy is what you should question yourself in advance."
AsmiK
How girls flirt:
  1. She calls you by your full name not just by a nick name (it depends anyway).
  2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when you say something funny.
  3. She flips her hair while talking to you.
  4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.
  5. She says, "No, I`m not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face.
  6. She comes so close to you when she talks, sometimes you cannot stay still (maintain your position) and just move back/retreat.
  7. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with seemingly interested.
  8. When you go to the movies with friends or hang out with a group of friends, she is almost always next to you.
  9. She criticizes you on a girl you like.
  10. You catch her staring at you.
  11. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.
  12. Her friends inside and outside of school know about you, and say she talks a lot about you.
  13. She knows your phone number and address (It is not abnormal, though).
  14. She will try to talk, and spend time with you as mush as possible.
How guys flirt:
  1. He looks at you a lot, and sometimes he looks straight into your eyes.
  2. He always tries to make a chance to talk to you and spend time to be next to you.
  3. You are invited so many times by him to a group hang-out.
  4. He uses every possible ways to touch you, your hair, face, arm,...etc.
  5. He like teasing you among a group of friends (never means to hurt you, though), but when he talks to you personally, he is serious like a grown-up guy, actually he is.
  6. His voice gets softer whenever the two of you talk.
  7. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a conversation with you.
  8. He admires you (saying you are lovely, beautiful,...etc.) and tries to tell you how he feels about you indirectly.
  9. He pays attention to what you talk, what you do, and your surrounding (to make sure that you are safe).
  10. He remembers things about you, even little things you mention in casual conversation.
  11. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process.
  12. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do laugh PRETTY LOUD, which makes you laugh even louder.....
  13. He calls you to talk about nothing at all, sometimes.
  14. You hung up on him. He called you back.
  15. Sometimes you think you meet him by chance, but actually it is by chance with calculation (if he is good at math).
  16. when he sees you in the campus, he smiles and says "Hi....., okay see you then."
(Sources: Wert and various sources)